AI Does the Work, But I Make the Decisions – On the Boundaries Between Human and Machine

AI Does the Work, But I Make the Decisions – On the Boundaries Between Human and Machine As conversations with AI become more routine, more and more people are starting to see it not just as a tool, but as a colleague , a counselor , or even a somewhat person-like presence . I sometimes find myself saying things like, "Could you try this?" or "Please help me with this," instead of giving direct commands. It makes me laugh—I'm showing courtesy to a machine. But then I wonder: If I'm being so polite, am I also slowly letting AI make decisions for me ? Why Do We Rely on AI So Easily? AI is fast, accurate, tireless, and always ready. It organizes information beautifully and responds politely. In many ways, it feels more reliable than an actual human colleague. So naturally, we start asking it more and more—not just for facts, but for judgments . “Is this the right choice?” “Should I go this way?” And that’s when the real question arises: Even though we know A...